FAT PEOPLE

I have to be at work early in the morning. So I'm driving, weaving in & out of lanes cuz people can't drive & they aggravate me. But anyways, I observe alot. I see so many contradictive things in the world it's crazy. Today I'm gonna concentrate on FAT people. Yes, you read right, FAT people.

Now I am 5'2, probably 95-100 pounds, depending on if I ate before I stepped on the scale. In a nutshell, I'm a little Asian girl. Actor says I have lots of curves & he loves my body, but I still think I'm just a little Asian girl. I'm not anorexic, better yet, I'm far from that. I eat probably 80 times a day; more if I had extra time on my hands. I eat more than Actor does. lol. Ask him, we'll go to Golden Corral & he'll have a plate or two, while I'm taking my time, eating probably 4 or 5 plates. Appetizers, entrees, & desert baby; the whole 9. I love Golden Corral :-D. But yea, I don't go around saying I'm a video chick or I'm so skinny & I love it cuz I'm not fat & all that craziness. I just do me. I am who I am.

What trips me out is how fat people act. And how they be hating on everybody. They hate on skinny people: "Oh she's so skinny she needs to eat more." No fatty, YOU need to eat less. They hate on other fat people: "I don't know why she's wearing that, she's all bulging out. That's nasty." No, YOU'RE nasty, look down at YOUR gut hanging out. lol.

I try not to judge people, I just observe. For instance, what started this whole blog was, in the midst of me weaving in & out of traffic, I look over & see this huge chick, no I mean she had to be like 200+ pounds. Maybe more. She was eating what looks like a triple cheeseburger with everything on it (yes I can tell cuz I'm fat too (Actor calls me that cuz I eat everything in site.)) But yea, she had that, a biggo thing of fries, and a diet coke.

First of all, it's 6:30 in the morning! Oh my GODDDD! Why are you eating that nasty, unhealthy crap anyway, and why are you eating it for breakfast? And the diet Coke. Need I say more? Yea, that'll counter everything else. A diet Coke. LMFAO. And you wanna know why you can't lose weight.

That's the other thing that trips me out about America. They're diet obsessed! I just need to lose 5 more pounds, just 5 more! There's so many pills & programs & surgeries out there. And for what? If you ate right in the first place you wouldn't have to try to lose weight. Yea some people aren't taught what to eat or didn't have the means to eat healthy or whatever the case, but once you know, then do something about it. And by that, I don't mean order the left side of the fast food menu & a diet, no make that two, diet cokes. No. No. No.

I told Actor that I wasn't even raised to exercise. My parents don't exercise, and I'm sure everybody else in my family & probably most of my country don't exercise. Some say that our cuisine is very healthy compared to other countries (defnitely more healthy than what most Americans eat) And we all have great health. And we live longer. Go figure.

I was raised in the American culture so I exercise (well, sometimes ;-)) because I want to be & stay healthy. I don't do it because I want to lose "5 more pounds." I actually wanna gain weight but my metabolism is too damn fast. But yea, back to the subject at hand. Fat people.

I have numerous friends that, one might say, are overweight or even obese. But they carry themselves in a way that exudes beauty. Not trashy & nasty. And fat people usually have beautiful faces, so they play that up & dress very appropriately & sexy without overdoing it. Let's be real, there are some things that fat people shouldn't wear. Yea you can be sexy & all that, big up for you, but don't push it. Don't ever walk out your house wearing a bikini, thong, short skirt, or any other thing that'll show your 8 millions rolls, and your stomach too. That's nasty.

And what trips me out the most is when fat people in denial. That is THE best; it's very entertaining. You know those fat people that swears that they're thick or big-boned? lmfao. Yea. Right. What kind of bone are you made of? Dinosaur? Those people that describe themselves as the sexiest, curviest, and voluptious thing walking? And you see them or their pictures and be like damnnnnn, who were YOU talking about? Thick & voluptious is J.Lo, Tyra Banks, Beyonce, etc. Not old Star Jones & Mo'nique, even though I love them.

Case in point, be real with yourself people! Be proud & confident of who you are & what you look like, but don't be unrealistic. If you're fat, then you're fat. If you're skinny then you're skinny. You're both not thick or video girl material. Let it go. Be yourself. Stop hating on everybody else & work on yourself.

"He shifted his weight from foot to foot, but it was equally uncomfortable on each."
~ Douglas Adams