SAVANNAH BOUND pt. 2

Thursday after work we went shopping for a few last minute knick knacks to bring on the trip. After eating a (and getting semi sick) Honeybaked Ham sandwich (which I dunno why I felt nauseous cuz I eat it all the time. It's the best! Maybe it was something else... *shrugs*) we went home to pack. I took a power nap before I started packing my million sets of clothes. I always overpack cuz you never know what could happen. You might end up staying longer or spill something. I'm OCD shut up! But anyhoos, I'm always prepared & will have almost anything anyone asks for in my purse. I have a lighter, band aids, earrings, contact solution, so on & so on. lol. Actor will be like you got this or this babe? And I just pull it out of my purse & he just shakes his head. I would've been a great Girl Scout dammit!

After filling up on gas & getting snacks & etc. we headed on down the yellow brick road. Ha! I always wanted to say that! (don't mind the random outbursts, I'm being slow right now) As soon as we got into town & stepped in the door it started raining. Perfect timing. I'm glad we didn't have to drive in the rain; I just got a new car so don't want my baby to get in any kind of incident or anything.

There were a whole bunch of people in his aunt's house. I guess they had a gathering & people came to check on her & give their condolences. (If you didn't read "Savannah Bound," we're going down there for Actor's uncle's funeral) As soon as we got in & started our greetings/hugs around the room, I heard a high pitched voice say "Akanke!" I looked around the room to see a tiny & beautiful lady reach out for me. "Grandma!" as I ran over to hug her. She's the best if I haven't mentioned before. We talked & hung out for a while then headed to his other aunt's house.

After leaving there we went to Wally World (Walmart for those of you who are impaired) to pick up some beach towels etc... cuz we were going to the beach on Saturday. We then headed to grandma's house to talk for a while & fell asleep on her couches.

The next morning everyone else arrived in town for the funeral. We woke up, got some Mickey D's breakfast & I hopped in the shower before his cousins came & we'd all have to struggle for bathroom time. I've never been to a funeral before. I mean EVER. So I didn't really know what to wear or expect. I figured I'd go all black to be safe: black dress pants, a black laced off-the-shoulder top & some black wedged heels with a bow on it. Actor had on this sharp black button up with French cuffs (if you don't know, better get on it!) and a banging green tie. I somehow had some green earrings in my purse to match his tie. I swear we didn't plan it. haha. Cuz he didn't get his tie till that morning & I'd already pack all of my stuff for the trip. So there!

We headed to the church (I love how old school & simple Savannah is sometimes. They didn't even have paved parking; we parked on dirt & grass.) It was raining so we ran inside the church & of course, greeted everybody. We went in to see his body & that was an experience within itself. I've never been to a funeral before, hence I'd never seen a dead body before. Sure I've seen almost every episode of CSI, but there's nothing like a real body lying right in front of you. With all the make up & whathaveyou that they did to him, he looks older, but at peace.

The ceremony (I guess that's what you call it, I'm not sure) was nice. There were solos, reminiscent speeches, prayers, and etc. We then headed to the cemetery to lay his casket down. Somehow the company said that it was their policy to not lay the body to rest until everyone is back in their car. Basically we couldn't see the casket being lowered so that sucked. Everyone was a little upset & confused as to why we couldn't. She was like "So everyone can make their ways back to their cars now" No one budged. lol. Everyone stood there & started talking to each other & catching up. After about half an hour we all started to scatter & headed back to the church for food.

Actor already warned me that the food would be sorry, and it was, so we decided to gather everyone and go to Golden Corral. I think I ate the whole buffet up, ok half... It was great! Golden Corral is my favorite buffet place, it kicks Ryan's butt. If anyone knows any better place let me know. We're always game to try new eateries. Food is one of my passions nomatter how fat that sounds. haha.

That particular Golden Corral was sorry that day. The steak chef was horrible. He didn't enjoy his job very much; was standing there frowning the whole time & didn't season any of the steaks before he put it on the grill. And THEN he left the grill unattended & came back whenever he felt like it. Ergo, all of the steaks were well well done even though everyone wanted medium-well. The broccoli wasn't fully cooked & still crispy; cheese all runny; didn't have the big popcorn shrimp that Actor always eat. But our company was great. We all talked, laughed, shared stories, and made fun of the food.

We went back to Grandma's house & took a nap. Woke up & went to his aunt's house again to watch movies & play games... etc

to be continued...